Don't complain about your circle of friends
I've been very lucky to have a lot of female friends in my life. When I was younger, I used to get a lot of butt pain from being afraid of friend zones, but it's the best thing that ever happened to you. By making friends with women, you can easily learn about online dating and the DOS and don'ts of online BBW dating.
Speaking of curvy dating, I don't know how many single female friends I have given me topics to add to my script. When you're dating online, knowing what other men are doing gives you a big advantage because you can easily navigate when you send your first message. Besides, it's also good to have female friends because you can text them before you text and get advice in different dating scenarios.
You are at a disadvantage
The best thing you can do is realize that the online tinder hookup scene is full of guys who look like Zac Effron, and that's not good for you. You can sit down and complain, or you can accept it and move on, because complaining doesn't look good. Although some of these people have the physique of a Greek god, many of them have achieved success in life through their appearance, so now is the time to put other aspects of dating to good use.
Read the profile seriously
For God's sake, look at their profiles. Remember what I said about investing in other areas? This is one of them. The biggest complaint I hear from my female friends is that men just text them and say, "Hi." People who do this are either extremely vain, extremely lazy, or both. Almost any dateable woman completely ignores these types of messages. Understand that women get horny messages from men every day on these online dating apps, so your message is like a breath of fresh air.
Ask questions to learn about the personality
Did I mention the question? Because you need to ask questions. Nothing kills a conversation like a statement. If you're having a good conversation and you do the wrong thing, it will end, and you'll get caught up in how to start the conversation again. So, to avoid this, ask a question about whatever topic you're talking about, or ask another question about their interests or life.